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  • The Rock San Diego – 4/19/09 – The Invisible Man Provides God Access

    Posted on May 25th, 2009 michael No comments
    • The Human body represents staggering genius.
    • There are certain things of God that only the Holy Spirit gives you access to.
    • If the Holy Spirit is not part of your life, either change that or check to make sure you really are saved
    • Praying, going to church and reading your Bible doesn’t mean you’re saved
    • God requires a full-on 100% commitment

    1 – Holy Spirit gives access to God himself

    • He knows you better than you know yourself
    • The Holy Spirit lives in your ‘heart’
    • The Holy Spirit is the one interacting with you on a daily basis
    • The love of a child is a whole different quality of love from every other kind of love
    • When the Holy Spirit comes upon you, it’s a whole different level again – there’s nothing else that can replicate it
    • Romans 5:3-5
    • The Holy Spirit comes with a certain kind of love that makes you do strange stuff (forgiving people, doing things, etc, you never would have before)
    • Everything in the natural is just the foundation for what God reveals in the supernatural
    • His love is adequate for everything he wants you to do

    2 – Holy Spirit gives access to God’s power

    • Power = ability, authority and freedom to do something
    • When man threatens you, you can stand strong with God’s power
    • He gives you God’s power for one purpose: to be a witness to him
    • If you don’t use the power that way, it will be taken away
    • Don’t be presumptuous about God’s blessing – he may let you deal with your situation alone if you don’t consult and invite him in to your decisions and work
    • The power is not automatic – don’t take him for granted
    • When his power is in your life, people will see it – your life ‘components’ will be unexplainable
      • Where did I get this ability? Or this desire?
      • The more you live with him, the more you will be able to attribute to his power

    3 – Holy Spirit gives you access to God’s insight

    • Natural power is taken – Spiritual power is received
    • Let God elevate / promote you
    • You will never be passed over for a promotion that God didn’t want you to have
    • Don’t sacrifice your relationship with God for saving face in the world – you do not want to go to bed at night knowing you and God aren’t ‘cool’
    • The Holy Spirit will tell you what gifts he has in store for you.  He’ll tell you how to get it and how to use it.  That’s what he wants.  You don’t have access without the Holy Spirit.  You’ve been given the Holy Spirit, so that you may know these things.
    • Blessings: wisdom, relationships, opportunity, insight, power, patience, love, grace
    • There are things that you can never learn from a man – that’s the stuff the Spirit wants to tell you – you can’t get it in a book
    • You could look like you’re out of your mind, but as long as God is in it, what you’re doing is right – don’t bet against God
    • Don’t require from God more information than he is willing to give – the rest is trust
    • The quicker and more thoroughly you can obey him, the quicker and more thoroughly he will use you

    4 – Holy Spirit gives access to God’s freedom

    • To say Jesus Christ is lord
    • Is Jesus God in the flesh or not?  Holy Spirit will not skirt this issue

    5 – Holy Spirit secures our eternal access to God

    • Romans 8:15 – spirit of adoption, daddy, heirs
    • Salvation cannot be lost, but it has to be given in the first place (you will bear fruit based on what’s in your heart)
    • 2 Cor 1:21-22, Eph 1:13-14 – sealed, guarantee, promise
    • Is there a super-natural-ness to your life?  Who cares whether you do religious things

    Lord, empty me.  Fill me with your Holy Spirit.  Lead me in each moment.  In Jesus’ name.

  • The Search for Significance – Devotional – Step 2, Part 1

    Posted on May 23rd, 2009 michael No comments

    1) Read Genesis 1:25 – 31 and answer the following questions.
    1a) What do you think it means for man to bear God’s image?
    I think that it means that I am fashioned in a way that resembles God.  I have emotions, so does God.  I use logic, so does God.  Everything that is good and holy (love, integrity, compassion, forgiveness, wisdom, joy patience, goodness and gentleness) within me is in the likeness of God himself.  Obviously, much of that is corrupted, even completely hidden, under the cover of sin.

    1b) What are two responsibilities that God gave to Adam?
    Multiply and subdue the earth (have dominion over it and all within it)

    1c) What was God’s evaluation of creation before Adam was created?  What was it after he was created?
    Both were considered ‘good’
    Changed from ‘good’ to ‘very good’

    1d) Was the basis of this evaluation based on Adam’s performance or God’s declaration?
    God’s declaration

    2) Read Genesis 3:1-10 and answer the following questions about the fall of man.
    2a) How did Satan tempt Eve?
    By appealing to her pride – a desire to be like God.

    2b) Where was Adam when Eve ate of the fruit (see Gen 3:6)?
    He was with he, right by her side, passive.

    2c) When Adam rebelled, did he know what he was doing? (see 1 Tim 2:14)
    Adam was not deceived – which means he knew what he was doing.

    2d) How did the Fall affect man’s desire for significance?
    Man lost connection with God, which created a gap in his spirit.  Man has desired significance in order to fill that gap.

    3) Consider man’s relationship with God and the effects of man’s rebellion.
    3a) Read Isaiah 59:2.  How has sin, resulting from the Fall, affected man’s relationship with God?
    My sin has hidden God from me.  He is there all along, but as long as my heart was turned toward sin, it was turned completely away from God.

    3b) Read 1 Corinthians 6:9-10; Galatians 5:19-21; and Ephesians 2:1-3.  List some characteristics of fallen man:
    Fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, homosexuals, sodomites, thieves, covetous, drunkards, revilers, extortioners uncleanness, lewdness, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, revelries, any lusts of the flesh.

    3c) Read John 8:44; Ephesians 2:2; and 1 John 3:8.  Fallen man is dominated by whom?
    The devil, the prince of the power of the air.

    3d) Read John 8:34 and Romans 6:12-17.  Fallen man is a slave of:
    Sin

    3e) Read Matthew 25:46; 2 Thessalonians 1:6-10; and Revelation 14:9-11; 20:11-15.  What is fallen man’s final outcome?
    Everlasting punishment; vengeance, everlasting destruction; wrath of God, tormented with fire and brimstone, no rest day or night; lake of fire

    3f) What effects of the Fall were evident in this morning’s newspaper stories or last night’s television news programs?  List specific events:
    It’s obviously all around us.  Murder, theft, adultry that is now basically commonplace, lust and idolotry of all kinds.  Basically it’s one huge distraction away from God our Father in Heaven.  The devil is enticing us with everything he’s got, smoke and mirrors turning our heads in every which direction, keeping our eyes fixated on worldly things and our minds bouncing from idea to idea, and product to product.

    3g) On a scale of 0 to 100 percent, how sure are you that you would go to heaven if you died tonight?
    100%

    3h) If you died tonight and stood before God and He asked you, “Why should I let you into heaven?” what would you say?
    You shouldn’t let me into heaven based on anything I have done.  But I know you through your Word and through our relationship while I was on earth.  I know that I have done nothing to earn your favor, but I also know that you love me.  I know and am humbled by your grace and mercy that you would forgive a sinner like me and cleanse me so that I may reside in your presence for eternity.  I love you.

  • May 23, 2009

    Posted on May 23rd, 2009 michael No comments

    I have realized very recently that I have been focusing too much on what I should do for the lord, that I may have distracted myself from allowing him to do what he wants in me. I need healing. I have scars that need my father’s touch. I need to open my heart to him for healing.

    I felt the Lord speak to me tonight saying:

    Just do what you do, and I will tell you what to do with it. It may be big, it may be small, but you will experience me through it.

  • Fathered by God

    Posted on May 23rd, 2009 michael No comments

    I prayed:

    Why don’t I remember anything about my childhood?

    The response was: Read the rest of this entry »

  • May 23, 2009

    Posted on May 23rd, 2009 michael No comments

    While reading Fathered by God, something struck me hard. On page 53 it says “And a terrible lie settled deep into my heart: you are on your own.” I know I have accepted this lie in the past. I recognize that it has affected me throughout my life. I repent of the belief in the lie. I accept the love and companionship of my Lord and savior.

  • The Search for Significance – Devotional – Step 1

    Posted on May 21st, 2009 michael No comments

    1) How do you define self-worth?

    Self-worth is how I feel about myself.  Am I living up to what I am intended, or called, to do in this life?  Am I the man I can be, the father I can be, the husband I can be, the friend I can be?

    For additional insight – I can see that my answers above are performance based.  They’re definitely not relationally based, so I think my self-worth is heavy on the performance side of the equation.  I may have learned to deal without the relational aspect as much.

    Lord, please create in me a quiet sense of self-respect and a feeling of satisfaction with who I am, knowing that I am your perfect and complete creation.  Designed to be someone who you will reveal over time, but exactly where I need to be right now for your divine purpose.

    2a) Are you glad you are you?

    I feel better than ever about being me.  At the same time, I wouldn’t say I’m glad about it.  I experience tremendous joy being me, living the life I am living.  At the same time, I feel I should be, or am capable of, doing so much more.  I feel exceptionally blessed to have the people in my life that I do, even though I do not have any friends, I feel tremendous joy in my family.  I also feel exceptionally blessed to have been given the gifts that I have, not to mention to be called as one of “God’s elect”.

    2b) Do you have a healthy sense of self-worth?

    Similar to 2a above, it’s better than it ever has been, but I am very much looking forward to the Holy Spirit’s working in my life, healing and leading me toward my calling / potential.

    For additional insight – This needs to be stronger, not neutral.  Again the focus is clearly on performance in my answers here.  But what is my worth if it’s no different that someone else’s worth?  Why am I loved?  These questions presume that in order for me to feel self-worth, I have to be somehow better than other people.  I do feel that I am relatively, stable, however.  I feel that I deal with failure and defeat relatively well, however I do not wish to be tested by that.

    3a) Read Ephesians 1:3-14 and list what God has done to you and for you:

    • God has predestined me to be one of his elect.
    • I was chosen before the foundation of the world to be adopted as his son through Jesus Christ my lord.
    • He has redeemed me and forgiven me by his grace alone
    • He has given and guaranteed an inheritance
    • He has sealed me with the Holy Spirit of promise

    3b) What phrases does Paul use to show you the extent of God’s love?

    • Beloved
    • Abounding grace
    • Takes good pleasure in having his will made known

    3c) How do you feel about these truths?

    I feel absolutely humbled.  It’s almost impossible to fathom how the almighty God takes a loving and intimate interest in me.  He loves me.  My acceptance of his love brings him immense joy – like a son coming back home to his father.  I’m home daddy!  I’m sorry for leaving – and he’s already forgiven me.  I just want to rest in his arms, feel his embrace, hear his tender voice…

    I love you Michael.  I have wonderful plans for you.  First, let us get you cleaned up, and then we can talk about your future here with me.  Don’t fret over the little things.  I will reveal what you need to know when you need to know it, therefore trust me.

    4) Why do we have a basic desire for personal significance?  Why does man wrestle with the basic questions Who am I? And Why am I here?

    The basic desire is placed there by God.  I believe it is there so that we would search Him out and search out His calling.

    5a) List some activities, relationships, or achievements that make you feel better about yourself.

    • Being a father and experiencing the joy of learning who my children are
    • Being a husband and sharing in life’s experiences with [my wife]
    • Learning about God and how I may grow in my relationship with Jesus
    • Creating something that brings joy or value to people’s lives
    • Professional acheivements

    5b) List some activities, poor relationships or failures that make you feel bad about yourself.

    • My failures as a project manager on integration projects
    • Driving frustrations
    • General relating with other people – not comfortable with what other people think of me

    6) What difference would it make in your attitude, relationships, and goals if you grasped the reality that your worth is not conditional (for example, based on performance) but is based on the truth of the unconditional love, forgiveness, and acceptance of God?

    I think it would make a huge difference in my relationships with people.  In some ways, I think that I put on a front to try to convince people that I am someone, because I’m afraid that they won’t just like who I really am.  I think I come across as stuffy or rigid or intense, and I really just want to have peace within myself to be who I am without fear of rejection.  I had a lot of rejection from friends as a kid, moving around a lot, and then trouble knowing what to do to interact with and keep friends.  It’s impacted me my entire life.  Looking at this now, I can see that my recent focus on trying to discover what I am called to do has been misguided.  I should be most focused on being who I am called to be.  It’s also worth noting that the word I used above was ‘discover’ rather than expecting revelation.  First be, then do what is natural.

    7a) Whose opinion of you do you value most?

    This is a tough question to answer.  First thing that comes to mind is [my wife].  As my wife, she matters a great deal to me.  I want her to accept me and I have, at times, questioned whether she really does love me like I expect her to.  Next, my dad comes to mind – but not sure that’s it.  My boss comes to mind because she represents my financial stability, which determines my ability to provide for my family.  Now looking at this in a new light, if I were to lose my job, the person who I would be most concerned with, even fearful of, telling would be [my wife].  I think this is the case because I am fearful that it would subvert her confidence in me.  I am her provider, and she relies on me.
    Upon re-reading this – my boss does not represent my financial stability.

    7b) What is your most common response to that person?

    I think I try to prove to [my wife] a lot that I know what I’m talking about.  I think this comes across, however, like I think I’m always right.  This is part of trying desperately to ‘win’ her acceptance and love by ‘putting on a show’ that is acutally counter-productive for me.  I’m pretty sure the reason she loves me is not because I have lots of answers.

    8.) Think of the person you know who loves you most.  How does that love make you feel?

    I think I would say that [my daughter] loves me most.  It makes me feel incredible when she shows random acts of love.  When she yells ‘Daddy!’ when I get home.  When I put her to bed and she gives me a kiss.  When she wants to tell me all about something she did.  When she wants to show me how she did something great.  It feels amazing.

    9) Why does the equation Others’ Opinions = Self-Worth cause us to be concerned about our performance?

    Because others’ opinions can be fleeting.  If others’ opinions are fleeting, then that means that my self-worth is a balancing act on a whimsically moving tightrope.  Others’ opinions aren’t even fully based upon who I am or what I do.  This formula would have me hopelessly chasing self-worth for the rest of my life.

    10) Is it difficult to view yourself in terms other than your performance or others’ opinions of you?  If so, why?

    Yes.  It’s hard to imagine not needing to be striving for something.  I think that I get personal satisfaction and achievement by going after something and getting it – a job, buying things, learning things, making progress on reading a book, video game accomplishments.  These achievements have given me my self-worth, but they always require ‘the next thing’.  Giving up this view means that I could be comfortable in my job, comfortable with my relationship with the Lord, not having the need to figure out how I can be God’s gift to humanity, not having the need to figure out how to become financially independent.  I think I fear that this would create time in my day.  Why am I fearful of that?  Time means that I am not being distracted by something.  Are these persuits mearly distractions?  Or are they God’s leading?  I don’t know.  I suppose it’s a distraction when it’s not focused on God’s glory.

    11a & b) A number of the major problems in our lives originate from how we value ourselves – our self-worth.  However many of the answers to these problems are superficial bumper-sticker solutions.  What are some examples of these, such as “Just have faith” or “Just trust God”?  How are each inadequate?

    • God won’t give you more than you can handle
      • God has purpose in what he directs in each person’s life.  However, God doesn’t direct every moment of each person’s life.  He will be there if the relationship is close, and will love and support and guide.  But for a non-Christian or even a Christian who cares little for their relationship with Him, He may not be there to hold your hand out of the ditch you have dug, unless of course you repent and sincerely rededicate your life to walking with Him.  Additionally, God does convict us or even punish some people for their iniquities.  Children of the enemy can not count on God helping them when all they have done and continue to do is spit in his face.
    • You’re a child of God
      • Children of God are pre-ordained.  They are believers in the risen Christ.  Not everyone is a child of God.  Some people (many even) are children of the enemy.
    • Jesus is the answer
    • Give it to God
    • Just trust God, and it will work out
    • Just pray about it
  • The Search for Significance (Part 1 and 2)

    Posted on May 21st, 2009 michael No comments
    • Self worth = approval from others + performance
      • I must have the approval of certain other people before I can approve of myself
        • God’s answer: RECONCILIATION: only his acceptance can fulfill our need for acceptance
      • I must meet certain standards in order to feel good about myself
        • God’s answer: JUSTIFICATION
      • Those who fail are unworthy of love and deserve to be punished
      • I am what I am, I cannot change, I am hopeless
    • We are addicted to approval
    • God promises freedom from fear: of rejection, failure, …
    • God has emotions
    • He knows himself absolutely and every situation thoroughly, therefore he always thinks correctly, which is why He is never overwhelmed by His emotions
    • You keep yourself angry by continuing to think about what makes you angry
    • Emotions don’t destroy our life, it’s being overwhelmed by certain emotions
    • Our task is to understand what His thoughts are so that we can have His emotions
    • There are 1,050 commandments to the Christian in the New Testament
    • Four inadequate reasons for being obedient:
      • Someone will find out
      • God will hate me
      • I couldn’t be proud of myself
      • I’ll trade with God
    • God disciplines his child, not punish
    • Adequate reasons for obedience:
      • Sin is destructive (everything antagonistic to who God is) and holds you captive
        • If something is not right, it’s wrong – don’t justify wrong if you can’t explain why it’s right
      • The Father will discipline
        • Because sin is destructive
      • His commands are good
        • He is trying to bring blessing to our lives
      • Love of Christ compels us
      • Rewards
  • Lust

    Posted on May 21st, 2009 michael No comments
    Lust is the precursor to what I abhore (adultery).  It therefore makes no sense that I would even consider allowing myself to indulge in this sin.
  • The Search for Significance p.109-113

    Posted on May 20th, 2009 michael No comments

    p. 109
    1) I am a substance that is able to enhance the flavor, the experience, of life for others.  If I deny or somehow lose that property, I cannot fulfill the purpose of my new birth.
    2) Christ’s intent is for me to be seen, not hidden.  To be bold and plainly visible.
    3) As a beloved of God, He and Lord Jesus Christ bestow grace and peace.
    4) Death once reigned in me.  Now, abundance of grace and the gift of righteousness reign in my life, lived for Jesus Christ.  By even one act, condemnation results.  Also through one act, I am justified.

    p. 110
    1) I am no longer condemned
    2) As His adopted child and heir, if I suffer with Him, I will be glorified with Him.
    3) No matter what, I overwhelmingly conquer through Jesus
    4) By the new birth, my mind, body and spirit are renewed.  Old desires and passions pass away.  New desires and passions come.

    p. 111
    1) Christ was made to take on my sin, to be punished as my sin, so that I can become the righteousness of God in Him
    2) I have nailed my old self to the cross.  Christ has risen in me in my old self’s place.
    3) My destiny was always adoption to God as His son, made possible through Jesus Christ
    4) In His grace, God provides forgiveness through Christ’s blood, which provides my redemption

    p. 112
    1) Jesus saved me while I was still dead in my transgressions.  Because of this, I am alive with Christ in me and worthy of being seated with Him in Heavenly places
    2) He molds me for good works, which God has prepared me for.
    3) God’s strength and might are available to me
    4) I am a completed creation, right where He wants me to be

    p. 113
    1) As God’s chosen, I am to choose compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.
    2) I am on a path toward holiness because Christ is holy
    3) I am on a path toward perfect love

  • Fathered by God seminar

    Posted on May 19th, 2009 michael No comments

    Boyhood

    • Living in a world made safe by your father
    • Craving of belovedness
      • Adoration, attention
      • Trials feel like abandonment when this is not present
    • A passive father wounds just as much as an abusive one
    • Childhood until about 12

    Cowboy

    • Adventure
    • 13-19
    • “Do I have what it takes?”
    • Take it to the next level
    • Being a shepherd was dangerous work
    • The need is for words of admiration and experiences for discovering he has what it takes
    • Failure at this stage results in avoiding risk – sticking to what you think you’re good at
      • Not trying something new
      • Failing without proper interpretation

    Warrior

    • 19-twenties
    • Wants to be powerful
    • Every man is given a warrior heart
      • Adam fell through passivity.  Passivity must be overcome
      • We are born into a world of war (spiritual).  The battle infects everything.
      • The Lord is a warrior (Ex 3:16?)
    • Suppression is an enemy
    • Defeat can shut this down if proper interpretation isn’t available
    • You have an enemy – you must deal with him – he’ll take anything you’ll give him

    Lover

    • Same timing as warrior
    • Most men hide in logic, reason, analysis
    • This stage is the awakening of the heart
    • Painful experience needs healing

    King

    • Late 30’s > early 50’s
    • The measure of a king is the description of what it like to be under his rule
    • Test of character is extraordinary
      • Pressures have never been greater
    • Wounded by giving responsibility too early

    Sage

    • Culmination of the journey
    • There’s a time to step down
    • Looks like his world is shrinking, but influence ought to be at its greatest
    • Father to kings
    • Counselor of warriors and lovers
    • Wounded by being dismissed
    • Inner life is greater than outer life
    • Ask for a sage’s wisdom

    Additional Notes

    • God presents himself as Father
    • Orphan consciousness
      • People (even Christians) live their lives mostly thinking they need to solve their own problems
      • What would an adoring father do?
    • Satan is always there to offer his interpretation of your experience
    • People make agreements with Satan
    • People make agreements that “it is all on me” (orphan mentality), or “it’s just the way it is”
    • Start by breaking the agreement
    • Renounce the lie the “it’s all on me”
    • God will put you in situations where you’ll experience fatherless to flush the would / agreement out of you (healing)
    • God is available as my father
    • He flushes things to the point where he can minister to you
    • Agreements;
      • I will always be like that
      • It’s just who I am
    • Don’t make agreements that make it more difficult to reconcile / heal later
    • Win the child’s heart for God