[My sister] moving in with [her boyfriend]

Yesterday (Thanksgiving), [my sister] announced that she and [her boyfriend] had decided to move in together.  They had found a wonderful townhouse and were planning on [her boyfriend] moving in in December, and [my sister] in January.  They seemed really excited, but I couldn’t just smile and nod approval.  I lovingly explained my views, being careful not to cross the line into being their ‘judge’.  I explained why I felt that it was in their relationship’s long-term interests to at least wait until they were committed with engagement.

Today, [my sister] left a voicemail for me and expressed deep appreciation for my being honest with them yesterday, and let me know that they have decided to wait until they are engaged to move in.  I thank the Lord for providing me with the wisdom to stand up for what His word teaches / commands and in a way of love rather than judgment.